Wednesday, December 24, 2014

Of Shepherds and Nervous Parents

aka The Shepherd Had S#!t on His Hands

Luke 2:1-20
Christmas Eve Year B

First Presbyterian Church Clarksville
Candlelight Service of Word and Sacrament
December 24, 2014
5:30 pm

The Reverend Dr. Robert Wm Lowry


            When you close your eyes and really concentrate, what do you see when you hear the story of the nativity of Christ?  What are the pictures that go with the words in your mind’s eye?
            Perhaps you see visions of the works of the great Renaissance masters with angels, shepherds and the holy family painted with elegant and graceful strokes of the brush.
            Perhaps you see the carved wood nativity that comes out each year to help decorate your home for the holiday; each piece wrapped in paper until the time for it to make its appearance in that special place of honor.
            Perhaps you see church Christmas pageants with angels fidgeting in their homemade gossamer wings, shepherds trying to walk without tripping over the hem of the bathrobe passing as a shepherd’s cloak, and everyone praying that the new born playing Jesus doesn’t get hungry and start to scream in the middle of the show.
            Whatever your picture of the nativity, whatever images come to mind, my guess is that yours is a lot like mine; it is pretty sterile- pretty tame.
            In truth, that starry-starry night so long ago was anything but sterile or tame in that stable in Bethlehem.
            That place was uncomfortable.
            It was inhospitable;
            it was dirty;
            it was smelly;
            it was pretty much the worst possible moment in the worst possible place for the events of that night to unfold.
            There were no elegant strokes of the painter’s brush or cute stumbling cherub faced children to take away the reality of that place that night when a young woman and her fiancĂ© became parents for the very first time.
            When my niece was born, my sister and her husband were that perfect combination of terrified and elated.  Like all first-time parents, they were terrified that there was this little helpless person who was theirs to care for and they had no idea what they were doing.  They, like all other parents, had moments when they became the stuff of hospital legend, panicking at the first sneeze and becoming almost unraveled at the first need of a clean up on aisle 4!
            And, like most parents, they were happy to let the family hold that precious little girl as long as they held her with freshly washed hands.  We used to kid my sister that at first washed hands were not sufficient, she wanted us to have the full Karen Silkwood treatment and be decontaminated from head to toe!  It didn’t take long though until soap and water or a healthy dose of hand sanitizer was enough to earn a little baby time. 
            Mary and Joseph were those first time parents.  Whatever kind of heavenly insight the heavenly host gave to them, there is absolutely no evidence that how to put on a diaper or what to do about that first bout of the sniffles was part of the divine instruction manual.  On some level, Mary and Joseph were like all other new first time parents; they were making it up as they went panicking about the little things, worrying over the mundane, and wrapped up in the anxiety of being responsible for this tiny human.  Of course in their case, that tiny human was also God so my guess is that their anxiety was increased by a factor!
            Like so many maternity waiting rooms today, there were surely some hangers on at the stable that day waiting for Joseph to run out and shout “it’s a boy!” Waiting for a glimpse of the baby in the manger.
            The scriptures are silent on the question, but I bet there were at least a few family or friends who made it in time. 
            One group we know for sure that made it were those shepherds of song and lore.  The ones who were keeping their flock by night and who, at the angel’s invitation, went to Bethlehem to see.
            Despite how they appear in the cute and funny church Christmas pageants on Youtube, the shepherds who showed up that night probably matched their surroundings pretty well.  They were dirty, smelly, pretty much the worst possible candidates to be getting close to a newborn baby.
            At some point, after the baby was wrapped in swaddling cloth, after mother and father began to settle into their new reality, after the chaos of birth gave way to the miracle of new life, the inevitable almost certainly happened.  One of the shepherds asked Mary, “may I hold him?”
            I can only imagine Mary’s face when the dirty shepherd- the one who slept on the ground with the sheep- reached out his arms to hold the newborn baby.   This unwashed, unclean, unsanitary shepherd wanted to hold the Son of God in his unwashed, unclean, unsanitary arms? 
            Nothing in the story itself tells us if this really happened or, if it did, what Mary would have done.  This is one of those places where we read a very human moment between the lines of a holy story.
            My guess is that in the end, Mary did let the shepherd hold the baby.  Dirty as he was, because lets face it there was no soapy water much less any hand sanitizer sitting around, that shepherd got his turn to hold the newborn baby; the newborn king; the newborn prince of peace.  He got his turn because, with this baby, everyone gets a turn. 
            Everyone gets a turn to hold this baby because this baby was born for everyone; for all of us.  This baby was born not only for the cute second grade shepherd walking down the aisle of the church tripping over dad’s bathrobe, but for the unwashed, unclean, unsanitary shepherd straight in from the fields.
            If we really want to follow the advice of the bloviating pundits who fight the phony war on Christmas year after year, let’s really put the Christ back in Christmas and think about what the world would be like if we treated Jesus the way Mary and Joseph did; not as a weapon to be used against the people we don’t like or approve of or care for but as the one who came for us all; the one entrusted to us so that we might share him with the world; the one we all get to hold.
            What, I wonder, would the world look like if we really lived like each and every person we meet deserves the dignity and respect of one who holds the prince of peace in their arms?  What if we lived like we really believed that Jesus came, not for merely the popular, powerful, or even the well-washed, but for all?  What if we lived knowing that each and every pair of hands that reaches out to hold the infant in the manger are hands deserving of that dignity?
            What would it be like to live in a world where…
            Rich hands and poor hands;           
Powerful hands and powerless hands;
            Republican hands and democrat hands;
            Protestant hands and Catholic hands;
            Gay hands and straight hands;
            Joyful hands and sorrowful hands;
            Documented hands and undocumented hands;
            Clean hands and unclean hands all…ALL…get to hold the baby?!
            What kind of world would we create if each and every hand that reached out in wonder, love, hope, or awe got to hold the baby- got to hold the child of God- just for a moment?
            When the angel came to Mary to tell her what was to come to pass, one thing was abundantly clear; her child would not be hers alone.  Mary bore God into the world and God in the world cannot and should not be contained in any one life.  God in the world is God with US- all of US- saint and sinner alike, God came into the world to be known and to know and when we hold the prince of peace in our arms we cradle hope and we know grace.
            This holy night, friends, my we reach out our hands and hold the baby.  May we stand shoulder to shoulder with the holy family and the filthy shepherds and every one of God’s children who reach out to hold the child.  And may we find, in this night and the miracle it ushers in with the dawn of Christ, the courage to see the world like a scared young mother; as a world worthy of sharing the Son of God.
            Thanks be to God that hands even as dirty as ours may hold the baby and know the closeness of God.
            Amen.